Cum e sa traiesti singur printre straini ?

Poate multi dintre voi v-ati pus aceasta intrebare.Poate multi dintre voi ati avut sansa sa aveti raspuns la aceasta intrebare traind experienta pe viu .Eu/noi am/avem sansa sa o traiesc/traim acum . Pot sa spun ca mi-am propus de mult sa ies din tara ,cred ca mi-a luat vreo 20 de ani sa fac acest pas si poate mi-a luat atit pentru ca nu am vrut sa merg sa spal vase la restaurante sau sa fac curat in hoteluri .Cred ca am ales cu grija momentul de a face acest pas in conditii mai sigure pentru toata familia . Acum pot spune ca ,chiar avem ocazia sa vedem cum e sa fim singuri ,aici ,unde puti romani ajung .Dupa cum unii dintre voi stiti la inceput am fost trei familii de romani dar de vreo 2 saptamni am ramas singuri deoarece colegul meu a plecat si el impreuna cu familia .A fost una din cele mai grele despartiri de care am avut parte vreodata . Binenteles ca nu a fost mai grea decit cea in care am plecat in armata cind plingea toata gara J))) Si asta nu pentru ca plingeau toti pentru mine ,dar fiecare isi ducea copilul la acelasi tren.

Am simtit ca ceva se rupe ,am simtit ca ,chiar daca ne-a fost greu uneori ,acum o sa ne fie si mai greu dar m-am uitat la Cami si din priviri am agreat ca o sa reusim chiar si in aceaste conditiiJ

Asa si este acum . Ne derulam zilele cu aceeasi consistenta sau inconsistenta ,depinde din punctul cui de vedere privesti.Eu am in continuare un program foarte incarcat si asta imi place dar pe de alta parte Cami si copii simt nevoia de a fi cu mine si de aceea incerc sa ma stapinesc in idea mea de workaholic.

Pritenii nostri au ajuns acum in Romania si isi reincep aventura . Sint sigur ca experienta braziliana ,asa cum a fost ea ,va constitui un moment de care isi vor aminti mereu iar clipele petrecute impreuna le pot declara minunate si le voi pastra tot timpul vii in memoria meaJ

Take care

Cosmin

How is to live alone among the strangers ?

Maybe many of you asked yourself this question. Maybe many of you have had the chance to live this experience living this question live .Me / we have a chance to live it now. I can say that I have decided to leave the country long time before, I think took me about 20 years and why this step took me so long because I did not want to go to wash dishes at restaurants or cleaning the hotels. I think I have chosen carefully when to do so, in safer conditions for the whole family. Now I can say that now we have the opportunity to see how it is to be alone here, where the few Romanian are living . As some of you know at the beginning we have been three Romanian families but since few months we remained alone, because my colleague and his family went back home in Romania. It was one of the most difficult separations that we ever had. Of course it was not worse than the one when I left to army when all the train station was crying but they were not crying all for me, but for each of their children that was leaving with the same train.

I felt something is breaking , I felt that if so far we had hard times, now we will be even more difficult but I looked into Cami ’s eyes and I agreed that we will succeed even in these conditions.

And so is happening now. We carry on every days with the same consistency or inconsistency, it depends on whose point of view you look .I still have a very busy schedule and even that I like it on the other hand Cami and children feel the need to be with me and therefore I try to not be so much workaholic .

Our friends now arrived in Romania and restarted their adventure back home . I'm sure that the Brazilian experience, will be a moment that they will always remember and I can say that the moments spent together were wonderful and I will always keep alive in my memory

Take that

Cosmin